In keeping with my promise to myself, I’ve just written the first of hopefully MANY posts that aren’t specifically about autism for this year. I’m finding ‘me’ and who I am and what I like.
This is the #yearoftheoxygenmask after all
So…..
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There are four questions that I absolutely HATE in this house.
1. How much longer?
2. Do I have to do my homework?
and
3. What’s for dinner?
(Well, actually – this is a family blog so the fourth question that I hate will have to be left to your imaginations)
My answers to the top two questions are usually along the lines of:
1. “As long as a piece of string” (or never if you keep nagging me)
2. “Absolutely” “Hell yeah” or a sarcastic “No, We’ll just hand in a blank book” (which incidentally is NOT a good idea when you have extremely literal aspies!)
But for the third question, I usually fumble with my words and um and ah because I’m not known for being very organised in the whole cooking department. It is partly because I see it as a grand waste of time because my minions refuse to eat almost everything that I cook (therefore making me feel like a pile of manure) and it completely sucks having to think of something new to cook EVERY night knowing full well that it will probably be rejected anyway.
But hoorah! Now I have a plan.
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OK….
(For those that know me…..don’t fall off your seats in shock- I know that creativity is not my strong point) but when I saw something like this on Pinterest a while ago – I have had it stored in my memory bank ever since and have been determined to try and make one when I got a spare moment.
So I found a small snippet of time (when I was able to hide from the kids and their incessant demands for me to entertain them, feed them garbage or sort out their latest squabble) and I made it and I’m super proud of how it turned out!
I struggle every single day to try and think of what on earth to cook at mealtimes as I have such fussy eaters in my family. There are a few tried and tested recipes that they don’t necessarliy actually eat ALL of but there are elements of every dish that they will have.
I ACTUALLY made this!!!! (shock, horror, gasp!)
The idea is that every Monday, Ella gets to pick a meal, every Tuesday Harley does, Wednesdays Lucas does then the same order on Thursday, Friday and Sunday nights. Mr Patient and I get to chose a special meal for just us for Saturday nights and tonight he cooked me Cajun blackened Chicken with pineapple and shallot rice.
The kids have to choose from the pile of meal cards that I have made up and because they get some say in what we will be eating….they actually enjoy it! And the best part is that being visual learners – they can see at a glance what is for dinner so they can QUIT ASKING ME!
It’s a complete win/win don’t ya think?
Oh …. and another bonus? My grocery bill came down by $50 this week because I only bought the things that were on this week’s meal plan. Seems I’ve been buying a lot that I didn’t really need all this time! Ooops!
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Awesome! Brilliant! I am stealing your idea! Love it! Anything that helps restore some sanity is worth the effort, I reckon!
Steal away my friend
Sometimes the parallels in our lives freak me out! Yesterday I sat down and typed up,printed out and laminated a whole lot of cards with meals on them. I am not really the crafty type so bought a ‘weekly planner’ board and with some velcro dots I now have a weekly meal plan (not as pretty as yours,but still!) I am so looking forward to my next grocery shop,knowing I will know exactly what I need.
See Dearna, you’re much better than me….I haven’t even gotten around to FINDING my laminator yet lol! I love the Velcro dots and planner board idea! And yes,….it is kinda freaky how parallel our lives are at times ! Lol
I love this! Will be making one before school goes back. I have been so slack in the holidays. Veggies???!!? Nah….. Maybe tomorrow! Love this idea and am so excited to have it all there sorted for the week.
veggies? Nope….never heard of them….what are they? Lol
By the way, I was inspired by the same board on Pinterest.
Was it the brown and green one?
I am impressed in every way possible by this. What a great idea!
Nice to have you back, btw. I hope you enjoyed your break with your mum.
I did enjoy my break, thanks
And I’m stoked that you’re impressed…..but don’t get used to seeing craft from me! Lol
Hello lovely,
Great post…you are so creative and inspiring. Keep being you my precious friend.
You have also given me the push I needed to start my scap booking.
I have been thinking of it for some time, I think losing my fractals also helped to make me rethink.
Love you so very much my friend. Lees. xxxx
Eeeeek! Scrap booking scares me! Lol so much work!
Yep…just what my brain needs Fi. You KNOW how over/hyper active it is…LOL
One more thing…I know you… and you are creative. Where do you get the idea that you are not?
Your writing is creative, your poetry, your song writing, sewing!
You come up with some wonderful ideas for the kids and how best to help them.
Those things don’t just happen, you have thought them through and created a plan.
Also all the wonderful things you find in charity shops and then find ways of restoring them.
Do you want me to go on my lovely friend…because I’m Aspie and I have a very good memory.
You just haven’t had the time to be you for so long my lovely.
It’s exciting thinking of this new adventure you are on.
Thank you for sharing it with us, I love your posts.
So take it from me…YOU are creative and inspiring…you inspire me ALL the time.
Love you my lovely friend.
Lees. xxxx
Thank you (is that better?!)
Yes….smiling at you. xxxx
That is a GREAT idea!! I had that question too, b/c it almost always is followed by “I don’t like that”. So, now we just say, “It’s your favorite” and the kids say, “NOOOOO” b/c they know it isn’t pancakes or pizza. LOL I love your new menu board and I may have to totally steal that idea too! It’s awesome!
Change *had* to hate! Love spellcheck LOL
hehehe, you’re like me Merri! I hate seeing typos in stuff I’ve written later too! LOL
Steal away my friend…..I can’t wait to see yours!
What a brilliant idea, I am going to try it too, thanks lovely Fiona.
You’ll have to send me a pic when you’ve made yours!
My mum often tells the story that we only ever had three meals. “Er yuck”, “I don’t like it” and “Not that again”. LOL Much more variety for your kids.
Just because there is variety….doesn’t mean that they’ll eat it! lol
Way to go Fi, what a great plan!
I am holding back big time from going to visit Pinterest, it may take over my scrabble addiction!!
Thanks Di
My advice – don’t go there….it IS addictive!